Holiday Stress

I swear that every year I am talking about the same thing, that is because that the stress never changes, if anything it gets worse. Every year I host thanksgiving in my hoe, everyone comes and they bring a side dish, nothing wrong with that, I do not mind hosting as my home is bigger. I feel that I have to outdo how it was each year, maybe because there is always a family member with something to say, its crazy and it makes me nuts! This year I am speaking up and telling them , shut up, like it or gtfo, lol.